Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Fun with Nonna and Poppa

During the last week of August, Canon spent yet another week with Nonna and Poppa in Winfield. I'm losing count, but I think this is the fourth week he's spent with them in just 17 months of life. Barry and I somehow managed to find ways to occupy our time, and from the pictures Nonna took, Canon had plenty to do as well.
He spent one afternoon in Birmingham, eating lunch with Nonna's lady friends and playing at the Summit. Canon has recently started acting very bullyish. He pushes the girls at school, bites, hits, and does whatever comes to him during his frequent, but (thankfully) mild temper tantrums. While at the Summit, Nonna told him to hug one of the stone statues. He really is hugging the statue here, but it looks more like choking to us. It only confirms our suspicions that any future siblings have no chance with this kid.
The rest of the week was spent visiting Poppa at work, hanging around the house, and running errands around town with Nonna. Nonna is always really good about taking lots of pictures, and here are some of my favorites.
Have you ever seen anything cuter?
I see some resemblances between these two . . .
This is becoming a traditional Fall Photo. We got one last August when Canon visited Winfield, but he has definitely changed since then.
Of course, he clung to Poppa, which Canon says with an Italian accent, pu-PA!
We met Canon, Nonna, and Poppa at the lake for a long Labor Day weekend before bringing him back home. As always, we enjoyed our week of "freedom" but felt put back together when all three of us were back home.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Developmental Update

I realized recently that, while I try to write about various stories and events that our small family experiences, I haven't done much in the way of telling about Canon's Can Do's.

Vocabulary

While Canon's vocabulary is not quite where we thought it would be by now, he's had a 10- to 15-word vocabulary for a couple of months now. His favorites are:

"Ma Ma?" and "Da Da?", used interchangeably to describe Barry, myself, or any other object he might want but can't quite get his hands on.

Shoes and Juice, both pronounced "joozs?" We just offer one after the other until we figure out which one he's intending.

Ball, pronounced pretty much like it should. He uses it to describe any round object, including the oranges in the produce section of WalMart.

Hot, pronounced "Ha?" which he says everytime he sits down to a meal. Apparently, my microwaving skills are not too stellar.

Light, pronounced "La?" once used everytime we passed a switch, but now much less frequently.

Bubble and Bye Bull, both pronounced "ba bul?" He usually speaks it specifically to Bull when we are leaving, but occasionally he'll say it in the bathtub as well. Which reminds me . . .

Bath, pronounced somewhere between "bah?" (as in "bah, bah blacksheep have you any wool?") and the actual word "bath." He'll get it right one of these days.

Bye, Bye is a new one and is pretty much pronounced correctly but not always used when it should be. Canon uses it more often to let us know that he's ready to go rather than to actually bid farewell to our hosts. This has made for some embarrassing situations, but it's also been quite convenient when we, too, are ready to leave. "Well, I guess if Canon's ready we should probably head out."

You may have noticed that all of Canon's words end with a question mark. This was intentional and not a typographical error. I realized not long ago that Canon's words usually come out as questions, and even more annoying than that . . . I always answer him. "Joozs?" "Yes, that's your juice." "Joozs?" "Yes, I see your juice." "Joozs?" "I get it Canon. Your juice is right there." "Joozs?" "Yes, I see it. It's your juice. How exciting!" It takes a surprisingly long time for me to realize that he's not really questioning the existence of the juice, just relishing in the fact that he can finally say something he's been wanting to say for months.

Identifying Body Parts

We've got all of the facial features nailed down: eyes, nose, ears, tongue, teeth, and hair. There are a few other body parts that we're well-practiced in: fingers, knees, foot, belly, and (on occasion) elbows. Our favorite thing to do is to sing "If You're Happy and You Know It" and have him point to all of these parts in turn. I've gotten him from the peak of a hysterical fit in the grocery store to the happiest, most charming child in the entire store just by singing this song. I'm beginning to think I've overused it, however. I can't be sure, but I think I caught him rolling his eyes the last time I started the opening chorus, as if to say, "Not this again, Mom! Can't you think of anything more original?" Sadly, the answer is "No."

This is a video I took today. It shows him performing for us.

Food

While Canon should be eating the same things that we do, I've really found my weakness as a parent in the meals that I prepare. We typically have a rotation of grilled cheese, cheese quesadillas, pb&j sandwiches, and chicken nuggets with a side of bananas, strawberries, grapes, peaches, cheese, or green beans (though the green beans aren't as eagerly accepted as they once were). Of course, when we go out to dinner we try to introduce some interesting things to him. He typically tends to stick with any bread-and-cheese combination. He loves french fries and smoothies - I see a future in making a "Super Size Me, 2" documentary.

Activities

Canon has moved from walking to running, and it's pretty hilarious to watch. He leans forward on his toes, then lets the weight of his head carry him forward. His knees don't bend too deeply, which means that he still falls . . . a lot. He's also gotten into picking up his bigger toys. You know, like the ones he's supposed to ride on. Our neighbors have a battery-powered miniature four-wheeler that he tried to lift today. Last night he picked up Bull's oversized pillow-bed and ended up falling and hitting his head against the metal frame of our bed. What can you do? I'm hoping the rules of adaptation will work double-time for Canon and allow his skull to quickly turn to steel before too much brain damage is endured.

He and Barry play fairly roughly, but nothing worse than what you would expect a dad and son to do. They wrestle on the bed, and Canon will "push" Barry off. Last night I learned that Barry had taught Canon how to head-butt him. Now the head-butting is a little more than I'm comfortable with but everything else seemed perfectly fine. Until Canon's teacher told me that he has been "pushing and tackling" the other girls in his class. Today, he scratched a girl on the cheek (yes, with all four major philanges) and pushed and hit another.

Ok, I have to put this picture in now just to show that Canon can be kind and respectful to girls. This is Ava. Her mother and I took the kids to Mellow Mushroom (ok, we took ourselves to Mellow Mushroom) and Ava fell asleep on the way back home. It was so precious to see Canon trying to pet her.

Canon is also climbing on lots of things. He likes to climb up in the den chair or on the bench in our bedroom and watch cartoons. He really is just a little man.


I think this might be all you need . . . or want to know about Canon these days. I could write all day, but that just wouldn't be fair to his future girlfriends who, I'm sure will eventually read this. If Barry would let me, I would at this point attach of picture of Canon in the buff!

Monday, August 2, 2010

School Days

The time has finally arrived. We knew sixteen-and-a-half months ago that this day would come, but I was not prepared. Canon begins his first year in daycare today.
He will be attending Evergreen Presbyterian, a very highly recommended and reputable place. Having said that, I can't quite figure out why I am so worried about it. Several of the teachers I work with sent their children to this very school, and they were all very pleased. Their children were well cared for and well prepared for Kindergarten. I'm so excited that he will be around several other children all day (he could definitely use the social development). Everything will be great, but somehow I just don't feel great.
Maybe we just had too much fun this summer and I hate to see it all end, or maybe I'm just in denial that we've already made it through our planned one year with NaNa (Sharon), and now the three of us have to really grow up. Whatever the case, our summer fantasy is over and reality will have to set in for the next ten months.
This is Canon just before we left for school. He is just too precious!
I promise I dress him in those super cute bubbles and smocked John-Johns, but I have to admit . . . I love the plain old shorts-and-a-golf-shirt look on him.
Of course, I had no idea what to do to make sure he was prepared. I was embarrassed to ask too many questions because it seems like it should be simple, but in the end, I called the daycare office early in the morning just to make sure I had everything I needed. If nothing else, it made me feel a little more comfortable leaving him there. That is, until I actually left him there.
We found his classroom, and I was so relieved to also find that he has too incredibly sweet teachers, "Miss" Tamara and "Miss" Cindy. They were very helpful in helping me get him settled but also eager to get me out of there. They were right. Before I left, Canon was already trying to steal a toy from the only other child in the room, a little girl named Beatrice (one of my favorite names in the whole world no matter how old-fashioned and old lady it is). As I'm watching him take this toy, I am sure that I should be the one that reprimands him for this behavior, but Tamara and Cindy are sure that I should leave quickly. Again, they were right.
I catch Canon's eye as I walk out and wave "Bye, Bye." He immediately starts crying and runs to the door with his arms in the air. I tell him it's ok, then walk away quickly before everyone sees me crying as well. All I can hear is Canon pounding on the door as I walk away. I'm still crying when I get in my car and back out of my parking spot, nearly hitting the car pulling into the spot next to me. And for the next five or six hours, whenever anyone asks me about it, the tears start pouring again. What is wrong with me?!?
Fortunately, one of my fellow third-grade teachers also took her four-year-old to Evergreen that morning, and she left just a minute or two after me. She assured me that Canon had stopped crying when she passed by his room and that one of his teachers was holding and loving on him. God bless her!
Surely tomorrow will be easier.